Don Jr.’s Girlfriend Furious After Boyfriend Called ‘A*****e’ and ‘Spoiled Heir,’ Threatens to Get Journalist Fired.

The media circus swirling around Donald Trump Jr. hit a boiling point this week, not because of anything he said or did — but because of how he was portrayed in a recent New York Magazine article. What might have been brushed off as another piece of anonymously sourced political gossip quickly turned into a full-blown storm when his new girlfriend, Bettina Anderson, lashed out at the media narrative and fired back with pointed, emotional defenses of the man she loves.

Anderson, a 38-year-old Palm Beach socialite, was first linked to Don Jr. back in September, after photos of the two locking lips ignited headlines. Since then, she’s largely kept things private, but the latest article in New York Magazine clearly crossed a line.

The piece, titled “The Age of Don Jr.: How the ultimate failson became an edgelord whisperer and a bona fide power player,” featured anonymous quotes that described Don Jr. in scathing terms — calling him a “spoiled heir,” an “a*****e,” and even “the most despised member of the family.”

If the author, Nina Burleigh, expected silence or a passive shrug in response, she grossly miscalculated. Bettina Anderson erupted, taking to her Instagram stories with a mixture of poetic jabs and blistering sarcasm aimed squarely at the article and its anonymous sources.

“Rumors are started by haters, spread by fools, and accepted by idiots,” she wrote in one story, laying the groundwork for what would become a powerful rebuttal to the article’s claims. The quote alone was enough to stir attention, but Anderson didn’t stop there. She went on to mock the reliability of the so-called insider that contributed to the piece, writing, “DEFINTELY an ‘insider’ VERY familiar with @donaldtrumpjr,” dripping with irony and disbelief.

In perhaps the most heartfelt moment of her series of stories, Anderson poured out a glowing tribute to Don Jr., showing not only love but deep respect for the man behind the media image.

“He is the finest, loveliest, tenderest, and most beautiful and brilliant person I have ever known,” she wrote, capping it off with, “and even that is an understatement.”

It’s rare to see this kind of public defense — not from a PR team, not from political allies, but from someone speaking with raw emotion and personal conviction. And in the world of media-crafted images and anonymous quotes, Bettina Anderson’s words cut through with a different kind of truth. Whether the public believes her or not, there’s no denying her loyalty.

Don Jr. himself also weighed in, taking to Instagram with his characteristic edge. Instead of playing victim or pretending to be surprised, he leaned into the insult and called it out with a sharp-tongued counterpunch.

“Don’t get me wrong, I can totally be an a*****e when I need to be… if you’re adversarial to my friends, my family, my country, MAGA, etc.,” he wrote. But he then challenged the anonymity of the article’s sources. “I think you’d be hard pressed to find a regular person who actually knows me that thinks that. There’s no wonder why these ‘sources’ are always anonymous. Man up, put your name to it, but we know you won’t because you’re cowards.”

That response, in typical Don Jr. fashion, wasn’t just a defense — it was a confrontation. And it reinforced the image many of his supporters already hold: combative, unapologetic, and fiercely loyal to his tribe.

Ironically, the article that took aim at him also ended up highlighting just how central Don Jr. has become to the conservative movement and his father’s political machine. Despite painting him as a “failson,” it also chronicled his influence in shaping key moments and relationships in MAGA-world.

The piece noted that Don Jr. was among the first to pitch Elon Musk the idea of launching a free-speech-oriented social media platform — a seed that, not long after, may have helped shape Musk’s acquisition of Twitter. It went on to describe Don Jr.’s early calls for Musk to lead a “government efficiency committee,” later dubbed DOGE, underlining a level of political foresight often overlooked by his critics.

Beyond tech, Don Jr.’s political connections run deep. The article detailed his behind-the-scenes role in convincing his father to endorse JD Vance in the 2022 Senate race, and later again playing a key role in making Vance Trump’s running mate.

These weren’t just endorsements — they were strategic moves that could reshape the future of American conservatism.

The same article even credited Don Jr. with influencing Peter Thiel’s decision to speak at the 2016 Republican National Convention — a pivotal moment that helped cement Silicon Valley’s complicated dance with the right. And his outreach to former Democrats like Tulsi Gabbard and RFK Jr., who’ve made their own ideological pivots in recent years, signals that Don Jr. isn’t just a participant in the MAGA movement — he’s a networker, a connector, and increasingly, a strategist.

Still, even as the article grudgingly acknowledged his influence, it couldn’t resist going personal. It described his girlfriend Anderson as a “manor born WASP” who had not, in their view, conformed to the cosmetic norms of Mar-a-Lago’s high-society women. The dig, as trivial as it seemed, only added to Anderson’s justified outrage.

The public might be divided on Don Jr., but this episode has done something rare in politics — it’s pulled back the curtain on a relationship that seems genuine, not manufactured. Anderson didn’t respond with prepared statements or bland denials.

She spoke from the heart, using her platform not just to clap back at the media, but to reaffirm her admiration and affection for Don Jr. in the face of intense criticism.

And whatever one might think of Don Jr.’s politics, it’s clear that the man who’s often caricatured as loud and brash has someone in his corner who sees a very different version — one that’s “tender,” “lovely,” and “brilliant.”

In a world dominated by soundbites and spin, the saga of Bettina Anderson’s defense of Don Jr. is more than just celebrity drama. It’s a reminder that personal loyalty and emotional truth still matter, especially when the knives are out. And for Don Jr., it may be the most humanizing chapter yet in his often polarizing public life.